There are several options to handle the house that is 'underwater'. First, if one party wants to keep the house and the other party does not want to remain on the Note, the party wanting to keep the house would have to either assume the loan or refinance. Second, if neither one of those options can work, the house could be placed on the market for a Short Sale. Third, if the party not wanting the house stays on the Note, that party is (1) still jointly responsible to the lender and, (2) would probably not qualify to purchase another home, given that party's position on the existing Note. Of course, there is the question of income. Depending upon the income of each party, options may change. Good luck.
Answered on Nov 19th, 2012 at 8:51 AM