Regarding leaving the state, you cannot file for divorce here, if you don't live here. If your spouse files here, and you are no longer living here, you will still have to deal with the divorce here. As for the house, talk to your bankruptcy lawyer to see if you can add the house now. If not, you are correct that you should try to sell it. If your husband won't agree, you can ask the divorce court to order it sold.
Answered on Sep 27th, 2012 at 11:34 PM