You don't provide enough detail for a reliable answer. Basically, the question of who owns the house (and thus has complete legal control) won't be decided until the final decree of divorce is entered. The decree will either (a) approve the parties' agreement about who gets the house or what is supposed to happen & who has control or (b) reflect the judge's decision if the parties could not agree. Until that happens, you don't necessarily have any final authority to do anything.
Answered on Dec 30th, 2012 at 11:11 AM