Given your situation, you really do need to have an attorney for this. You are asking for alimony and your husband is not going to want to pay alimony. This is going to require more than one court appearance, numerous pleadings, and a lot of procedural knowledge that no online service is going to be able to impart to you. To answer your specific questions: Yes, the court will take into account your husband's overtime. You may be able to find an attorney who will take your case and try to get his attorney fees from your husband, but it probably won't be easy to do so.
Answered on Feb 08th, 2013 at 2:40 PM