If I start working, will my alimony go away?

The question is difficult to answer in this context. Depending on the order, spousal support is based on both parties incomes. If the court has not imputed income on you, support was based on your income as $0, and you get a job earning income, the court could reduce your spousal support. Unless the support order states that it is non-modifiable (which is seldom done these days) the issue of support is always before the court and can be brought before the court at any time. Moving out of state with your child is another issue that is complex to address. This should be addressed with an attorney. Unless the court has already given you the right to move your son out of state or the child's father has given his consent, you may not be allowed to move your child out of state regardless. It can be considered kidnapping or interference with father's custody time. This may be grounds for the court to change the custody to Father. It depends on the circumstances. You should consult with an attorney regarding this issue.

If you get a job, that income will be considered by the court to possibly change the amount of spousal support you are now getting. Talk to an attorney in your area as to how much the spousal support will reduce if you take the out of state job. Then you can make an informed decision.