If my husband agrees to the divorce, do I still have to someone serve him or can I?

A party to a divorce action cannot serve the other party. You can find credible process servers on craigslist and in the yellow pages. Otherwise, you can have a friend serve your husband provided they are at least 18 years old and will sign (and notarize) the affidavit of service.  If you are doing the divorce yourself, you can get free help at the court's help office. Best Regards,   Morghan Leia Richardson, Esq.   Richardson Legal PLLC 31-08 Broadway, Suite 204 Astoria, New York 11106 www.RichardsonLegalPLLC.com Tel: 212-537-6744 Fax: 212-574-3337

You can not do it. Someone else, not a party to the action, above the age of 18, must do it and must sign an affidavit of service.