You can, but one or the other will likely get transferred. Spouse's paperwork was first, so unless you have a good reason for not proceeding there, that is likely where proceedings would be held. You don't mention if either of you signed a Voluntary Appearance or were served by Sheriff yet. If that has happened, it would be a waste of money and time to file again.
You could, but generally the first to the courthouse gets priority. Your only argument is that the venue is wrong if you both live in the same county and he filed in the wrong one. But if he lives where he filed, chances are it will stay there.
The quick answer is NO. You must file the responsive paperwork in the same County she filed the divorce or your paperwork won't get to the right place and she may be able to enter a default judgement against you.
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