It is supposed to be dealt with. If it was not dealt with it is probably because you (and your former spouse) did not bring it up. As it was not dealt with, it can be dealt with later. I suggest you make later now and divide the retirement. It is fairly common, if both spouses have a retirement, that each spouse may keep his/her own. Even so, if that is what happened, it should have been spelled out. No matter what, save your former spouse and your heirs a lot of tears and frustration and go back and deal with this now.
Answered on Aug 23rd, 2012 at 12:45 PM