I would say that it is seldom or never to late to talk with an attorney and hire one if you need assistance. That is what we are for, and what we do. Oftentimes it is better to hire an attorney sooner instead of later, but even if things have become "messed up" an attorney can usually make the situation better. One of the definitions of insanity is repeating the same thing and expecting a different result so if things are messed up when you started going pro se then it would seem that you should proceed in a different manner. This would be especially well-advised if your spouse has an attorney and is taking advantage of a pro se layman.
Answered on Apr 06th, 2015 at 2:21 PM