You should have divorced him the first time he left. However, you only hope now is to get an attorney and divorce him. The obligation to pay child support stops, more or less, when the child turns 18. In Idaho you may be entitled to spousal support to get you into a position where you can get a job. Call the Idaho Volunteer Lawyers Program and see if you qualify for pro bono services.
Answered on Feb 08th, 2013 at 2:21 PM