My ex-wife has hired an attorney in an attempt to take our son. How can I combat this?

The best way is to hire your own attorney. Emotionally, you will feel much safer. Legally, you will be safer. Hope that helps.

Mediation is mandatory in custody and visitation matters and her refusal to participate make it unlikely that the court would agree to her requested change. You should consult even if you cannot retain, an attorney or a family law facilitator to help you best put together your paperwork.