my husband left the country to Haity to get a divorce from me, without me knowing is this legal. I live in NJ and got married in NJ

Before this was done he took a lean against our newly purchased home while I was mentally impaired and could not take care of myself. He then took a lean against our home for $286000 and I do not know where the money went. He stole the only car I ever had and purchased myself through a lawsuit I had only in my name and that was a brand new jaguarXJ8, He change all the paper work of ownership and change Insurance in his name, I found a police report that he said the car was stolen and he received all the money from my insurance company. He then took my part of $100,000 of stocks we had together, Then He stole all of my Anniversary gifts that he had purchased for me during our 34 years of marriage. He abandon me and my children more than ten times through the marriage and he finally abandon us for good when we moved in our new home. The Home was purchase for $200,000. I sold the house my father and I purchase before I was married for $179,000. Now my home is in forclosure .