My wife is seeking a divorce which i have no problem with however her grounds are Adultery which I have not. we have no children and we live together

Thank you for your question, I will be happy to assist. Adultery is grounds for divorce in NJ, however, it will not impact the overall outcome of the distribution of marital property unless there were dissipation of assets that benefited the adulterous relationship. At the end of the day, the divorce can still be granted for adultery, but your property will still be equitably distributed. It would be wise to contact an experienced family law attorney to answer any specific questions that you may have.