You may be able to work out agreements on your own, but you want them written up so that they hold up in court. An attorney will also be able to talk to you about other issues that you may not realize should be included in your Judgment. You can also discuss how the equity in certain items should be handled and how you want to word your visitation agreement, it would be a bad idea to agree that he can see the children as much as he can or wants to. This could mean he could ask for them any hour, any holiday, any time period, for any period of time. I believe it's worth the small investment to obtain an attorney just to help you draft the legal Judgment with your best interests in mind, keep in mind, you will be living with the Judgment, as written (including any provisions left out) for many, many years.
Answered on Apr 18th, 2013 at 4:22 PM