want to divorce

You need to find someone who practices in the County in which you live. You should look for a lawyer that does matrimonial work as a "specialty" or concentration.  You can use Lawyers.com to find a lawyer, or you can use this forum to post a question to a group of lawyers. If you try Lawyers.com and cannot find a lawyer in your county, contact my office and I will help you find someone. 

I strongly recommend that you meet as soon as possible with a very experienced lawyer who devotes his/her ENTIRE practice to New Jersey Divorce and Family Law matters, go over your situation in detail, get educated answers to your questions, and obtain expert guidance as to the best course of action. In my opinion, it will be well worth the cost of the meeting. I head a law firm that devotes its practice exclusively to New Jersey Family Law matters.  It's all we do. Please feel free to take a look at our Firm Website (www.salvaggiolaw.net), which contains a lot of helpful information. I would be happy to have a brief telephone call with you, to get more information.  There is no charge for that phone call.  Please call 973-455-1220. David F. Salvaggio, Esq.