So long as you remain married, absent a court order to the contrary, you each have equal rights to the house. As part of the divorce, the court must award the home to someone. You can continue to own it jointly, or one of you can own it outright (which will exclude the other person), or it can be sold. If you keep the house, with exclusive use and possession, he does not get to "access" the house whenever he wants and you will be given some period of time within which to refinance to move his name from the mortgage. You would do well to consult with an attorney before proceeding with any divorce process, as there are many considerations and the "do-it-yourself" paperwork is woefully deficient in covering all the bases.
Answered on Jun 20th, 2013 at 2:11 PM