If he has substantially more income (or access to funds) than you should make a motion for him to pay for all or part of your attorney fees, as well as Spousal Support. Whatever his income, he should be paying Child Support if any of your children are under 18. In a community property state, half of any assets acquired during marriage (including pension and 401k) are yours, but you need the court order to get them into your name. Most courts have Family Law self-help centers, which can get you started, then hopefully, you will have an order for him to pay for your attorney and be able to get everything else taken care of...my bet he is has already consulted with an attorney and that's why he is bringing you papers that are in HIS best interest. The longer you wait, the longer you will have to do without attorney fees, spousal support, and child support. You should get a couple free attorney consultations and go to the self help center asap.
Answered on Jan 23rd, 2014 at 6:23 AM