Dissolution of marriage in Washington does not require agreement. The only thing that is required is that one party state that the marriage is "irretrievably broken." If the other party doesn't think that's true, the court might delay entry of judgment and refer the case to mediation, but it can't force you to stay married. If you don't agree on the terms of the dissolution, the court will be responsible for making a just and equitable division of assets and debts and ordering a parenting plan and child support. It sounds like the husband may have already filed, in which case he should carefully read any documents the court may have issued (e.g., some counties set case schedules) as well as the state and local rules. If the wife is properly served (by someone other than the husband) and then refuses to participate entirely, she may be in default, and the case could proceed without her objections.
Answered on Oct 19th, 2012 at 6:07 PM