Any request to remove your name as a joint obligor on the loan must be directed to the lender (i.e., your Bank/Mortgage Company). Even if he wanted to, he has no power to change the terms of the loan agreement and to remove you from the loan. Moreover, lenders are very, very reluctant to release parties from a loan obligation. Your only viable recourse is to seek a court order requiring the husband to make application to refinance the property and get a new loan in his name alone - or else to sell the property if he is unable to qualify for a refinance. If he will not agree to do this, you will have to try to convince the judge to order this at your trial.
Answered on Oct 25th, 2012 at 5:07 PM