I could prattle on about the law and such, but that's not what you need now. Get a good (not just any) divorce lawyer, now. You need one. Badly. Yes, it'll cost you, but it will more than pay for itself if you get the best lawyer you can afford (and the best you can afford cannot include a crappy lawyer). If you play your cards right, you could come out of this divorce in a great position. Try to jump over dollars to pick up pennies and you'll regret it the rest of your life.
Answered on Jan 02nd, 2014 at 3:15 PM