I would suggest filing for divorce and asking the court for an order to deal with the finances in the meantime. If he's no longer helping financially, time is of the essence. The longer you wait, the longer the bills will go unpaid. You cannot force him to come back. Instead, you have to learn how best to move forward for your sake and for the sake of your children. It's a hard time, but you will survive.
Answered on May 08th, 2013 at 2:52 PM