I would recommend that you would hire an attorney in order to at least counsel you regarding the filing and procedures. Without much additional information, it is impossible to predict. The fact that your wife is currently in another state is not much of an issue, unless she files for divorce against you there. As the cost, that is going be determined by the amount of time spent, which is in turn determined by the issues and attitudes of the parties. While it is possible to prosecute and gain a divorce without an attorney, it is extremely unwise given the fact that there are any number of things which a person representing themselves will tend to miss and which will cause significant later problems. It is always cheaper to do it right the first time.
Answered on May 07th, 2014 at 8:39 PM