You need to deal with this the only possible way. File a divorce or legal separation. The make a motion for temporary orders asking the court to require him to make the mortgage payments for the period he lived there and leave by a date certain. He has 3 years of equitable interest in the house since you were married and presumably paid the mortgage during that time with funds earned during the marriage which are, by definition, community property. Get a lawyer. Your private arrangements obviously and predictably didn't work. You need to deal with this in an adult fashion, with legal authority.
Answered on Mar 12th, 2014 at 5:59 PM