It seems from your post that you have filed a complaint for divorce without using an attorney. When you filed your complaint there was a second page along with the summons form. That is a the return of service form. You are required to give a copy of the summons and complaint to your spouse, fill out the form as to when, where and how your spouse was served, sign the form in front of a notary public or court clerk. This is the proof that you "obtained service" on your spouse so that the case can proceed. Until your spouse is served with the summons and complaint he/she has not been "summoned" into court to respond to your complaint. The defending party in a lawsuit of any kind has to have notice that there is a suit against them, that they are required to answer the allegations in the complaint, that they are required to come into court to defend themselves. Filing the summons and complaint is only step one of your lawsuit. Serving the summons and complaint on the other party is step two. If either step is missed, the lawsuit does not begin. If after service, your spouse fails to respond, then you may enter a default against them and proceed with the case.
Answered on Mar 05th, 2013 at 3:24 PM