The best thing is really to mobilise your lawyer. Many lawyers do not draft QDRO's, which can be very complicated, but instead hire a specialist (lawyer or CPA) to do it. So it's a lot to ask of yourself: you could find yourself checking out the statute in the library, and drafting it, and getting the judge to sign it, only to find that the trustees of the fund disapprove for one reason or another. If your estranged husband should empty out bank accounts which are subject to division in divorce, or which have already been divided, he would be in contempt of court in a very big way. I don't understand why you are homeless. Surely you can apply to the court for temporary maintenance to help you pay for a place to stay.
Answered on Feb 07th, 2013 at 9:05 PM