what if i dont think my lawyer is working for me he seems like hes bothered by me and he isnt fighting anything what can i do

Presumably, you hired your lawyer.  If you don't believe that your lawyer is protecting your interests, you always have the option to fire the lawyer and/or hire a new one.  Whether or not you are entitled to any refund of fees paid in advance would depend on the terms of your contract, and whether your lawyer has already performed services in good faith that have earned those fees.