The first thing you should do is retain a competent attorney who can advise you of what actions should be taken as you prepare to file for divorce. If there is property, a business and children involved, the matter will be complicated enough that it will be difficult for you to adequately represent yourself on your own. In filing for divorce, you want to make sure that all marital assets are preserved and an agreement can be reached on custody, parenting time and child support. If agreements cannot be reached, the court will make decisions after a hearing. Unless you are familiar with the court rules and rules of evidence, you will have a difficult time at a hearing.
Answered on Dec 13th, 2012 at 1:08 PM