Alimony, or spousal support as we call it in Michigan, is generally determined on a formula basis. The formula can be ignored depending on mitigating circumstances. Regarding pensions, including military pensions, if they were earned or recruited during the course of the marriage they are normally seen as property. It sounds as if you do not have a particularly good handle on your rights and potential obligations and therefore I highly recommend that you engage an attorney, provide all the details, and gain a reasoned and knowing opinion.
Answered on Sep 16th, 2015 at 2:33 PM