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What should I do to protect myself in divorce? How?
Asked on Jun 12th, 2015 on Divorce - Florida
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After our children graduate from high school, my husband has informed me that he will be seeking a divorce. He has even demanded that I get a job. I am a stay at home mom. What do I need to do to protect myself from him? Is there anything I can do at this point?
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Without knowing the age of the children I cannot effectively comment. Best for now is to see an attorney.
Answered on Jun 12th, 2015 at 8:25 PM
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There is no easy or formula answer to such a question, since it depends on a plethora of facts which this site cannot examine. There might be a question of starting separate bank and investment accounts, possibly of removing some funds from joint accounts, etc. Starting training or education to suit you for the job market is almost certainly a good idea. If your kids are in high school, they may need your guidance, but they probably need less of your time. And of course: consult a skilled matrimonial lawyer.
Answered on Jun 12th, 2015 at 8:20 PM
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I suggest you start looking for a job.if you cannot find one it will buttress your argument that he must pay alimony.
Answered on Jun 12th, 2015 at 8:16 PM
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The best thing for you to do (you don't say how long before the kids graduate) is to start working or go back to school to get some work skills. Unless there is a lot of community property, you will ultimately have to work and preparing for it now will be helpful.
Answered on Jun 12th, 2015 at 2:51 PM
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Hire an attorney and make sure you have copies of your tax returns, and all financial documents. Set money aside also.
Answered on Jun 12th, 2015 at 2:17 PM
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Get competent, prompt legal counsel. You might need to be protected from yourself instead/too.
Answered on Jun 12th, 2015 at 2:12 PM
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Gather your financial documents while they are still available to you and make an appointment with an experienced divorce attorney to make a plan to protect yourself financially during this time.
Answered on Jun 12th, 2015 at 1:59 PM
Bruce Provda
You should speak with a divorce attorney. Even though you don't have your own income, your husband can be ordered to pay your attorney. Get a consultation before the whole deal starts.
Answered on Jun 12th, 2015 at 1:19 PM
My suggestion is that you retain an attorney to give you a consultation and let you know what your rights are. You may want to proceed with the divorce right away. You may also want to consider Mediation.
Answered on Jun 12th, 2015 at 1:03 PM