Go the Inspector General's office of the nearest military installation and show them you marriage license and explain the facts to them. The military chain of command can force him to get your ID card and provide adequate financial support until a divorce is finalized. You have a slight advantage in that there is nothing he can do to force you to file for divorce so he will have to find a way to do it himself from overseas.
Answered on Jan 11th, 2013 at 12:09 AM