Arizona is a no fault state so you do not have to allege adultery in the paperwork. You can file a petition for dissolution yourself. Your husband would then need to be served. If he fails to respond, you can apply for default and ask that the judge enter all orders based upon what you put in the petition. If your husband files for divorce, then you will have to either work out the terms through a consent decree or go to trial and ask the judge to enter orders. Either way, you can get a divorce without your husband's agreement and without alleging adultery. In fact if you allege adultery, or he brings it up in court, it more often than not will reflect negatively upon him (not you).
Answered on Jan 11th, 2013 at 12:32 PM