Will I still have some rights on the house if I am leaving home before divorce proceedings begin?

My husband and I have been having a lot of fights lately and he keeps saying he wants a divorce. I finally accepted but we haven't begun the proceedings yet. He calls me stupid because I'm taking care of someone as part of a temporary job even though it doesn't pay a lot. I found out recently that he has been emotionally abusing my 16 year old daughter since she was 7 years old but she didn't say anything because she was scared of him. I can't take this anymore. I don't want my daughter to be scarred by this for the rest of her life. He yells at me too but I never paid much attention to it. He pretty much kicked us out of the house. I'm now staying with the person I'm taking care of. I don't want to lose my rights to the house if I have any. His name is on the deed but I've been the one cleaning, washing, fixing and partially paying the bills in the house. I'm worried because he's also a veteran and has always said that the laws "don't apply to him the same way" I don't know a lot about laws but I don't want to end up without a home.