Even though my Detective son has my POA and is listed as TOD on my Jeep and his name is on ALL my money assets can a long-term facility take those?

Many people forget that while we pay into Medicare and Social Security with every paycheck, none of us pays into Medicaid.  Medicaid is a loan from our fellow taxpayers.  Naturally, people from Maine to Hawaii, while willing to give you a loan to pay for your care, are not terribly interested in opening their wallets so that your son can have an inheritance.  We need to think of our legacies not just in financial terms but in terms both of what we havve already done for our children by raising them and in terms of the emotional and spiritual legacies we leave.