I can only speak for my own practice in California, but I draft a fair number of Advance Health Care Directives, These were formerly called Durable Powers of Attorney for Health. A well-drafted document carefully requires thee donor of the power decide who determines rights of access. Named individuals can be excluded or the holder of the power can be given broad discretionary rights to limit visitation. These powers are created by statute and you should check North Carolina law. You probably have a County Eldercare Ombudsman or Adult Productive Services who could investigate your situation. Good luck.
Answered on Sep 21st, 2012 at 12:13 PM