Open communication is the best way to proceed, if at all possible. You could always take this to the court or Adult Protective Services. Both of them would conduct an investigation. In either case, your brother would resent the involvement, if nothing else, and it might hinder your future relations with him. Lack of communication is problematic in most situations. I would try to be proactive and make sure that you let your mom, AND your brother know that you are available and willing to assist in any way you can. There is no way for you to compel accounting's, at this point. Your brother is accountable to your mother, but not to you.
Answered on Oct 08th, 2013 at 11:35 AM