Based on your statement that he rarely has lucid moments, you may not be able to get a power of attorney for him. Understand that a power of attorney is a delegation of authority from a competent person (the "Principal") to allow an agent to act on behalf of the principal. However, you can obtain this authority through an Order of the Probate Court granted upon petition. You will likely need the assistance of an attorney to prepare a Petition for Appointment of a Conservator for your father. As a relative you will have standing to file this but will need certification of your father's condition from a physician to provide to the Court in support of the petition. The petition will have to be noticed to other relatives. Upon your appointment, your letters of authority will be issued by the Court. Since you indicate some of the steps you feel are necessary to be taken, those should also be set forth in the petition.
Answered on Nov 23rd, 2011 at 2:22 PM