Look for cheaper accommodations for your mother or take her back into your home and obtain in home care for her through Dept of California Human and Health Services. By the way, your mother is lucky and so is your family she can afford the care. Accumulated assets are not for the purpose of leaving family members an inheritance but to care for the person who needs the care; if this was otherwise, than the taxpayers suffer the burden of taking care of your mother, which is not right, when assets of the person needing the care are available for that purpose.
Answered on Oct 22nd, 2012 at 9:52 PM