I'm not completely sure I'm clear on this your father's will leaves everything to you. Then, once your father's will has been probated, you own everything. You can then make your own dispositions transfer a share of ownership to your wife, if that's the right result. In your will, you can disinherit the son who has a drug problem, if that's the right result. Your father's will only "speaks" once it doesn't continue to control the disposition of property after you become the owner of that property.
Answered on Feb 24th, 2013 at 9:46 PM