Your grandmother may have "intended" the home to be your father's. She did a HORRIBLE job of setting things up to accomplish this. Estate planning is critical in situations like this, and apparently it was not done. That means that your father is at the mercy of his step-father. Verbal agreements mean nothing in this kind of situation. Any agreements involving real estate need to be in writing. Your father has an argument that he should be reimbursed for the value of the remodeling work that was done. Of course, he has apparently been living at the property rent-free, all of this time. That suggests that there might be some kind of off-set, if this ever went to court. I think it is time for your father to decide if he wants to stay at the house or not. If he does, he will need to make an agreement with his step-father. If not, he can stick the step-father with taxes and insurance costs, but he will need to find a new place to live. There is plenty of blame to go around on this. Your dad has his mother to blame for failure to set things up properly. Step-father has NO legal obligation to do anything, however.
Answered on Feb 19th, 2014 at 6:47 PM