You may not be able to do this. If your mother lacks capacity, no one has legal capacity to "change the name." If your mother signed a Power of Attorney and if it is in your mother's best interest to change title, then it is possible this can be done. Otherwise, the property will need to be probated upon her death. The State would have a potential claim for Medicaid reimbursement, if your mother is receiving Medicaid. You have a very complicated situation and you need to review this with an elder law attorney to determine what, if anything, can be done. Probate costs would generally be on the order of $5-6k.
Answered on Mar 10th, 2014 at 8:32 PM