There is no one that legally has any authority to do ANYTHING, at this point. I would contact the police and have them go to the house with the son and his mother to retrieve his personal items. Beyond that, a probate estate needs to be opened and a personal representative appointed. If there is a Will, it should direct who that person will be. If there is no Will, then any interested person can apply to be PR, including your girlfriend.
Answered on Apr 03rd, 2013 at 5:21 AM