I'm reluctant to talk about cost the lawyer quoting that number knows a lot more than I do about the work that will be involved in this estate plan. A new Will usually starts with "I hereby revoke all prior wills." The language has to be there, though, it's not automatic. The Will should be put in a safe deposit box in your mother's name only, no joint owners. The named personal representative can get in the box after Mom dies. Until then, if no one can get in the box, then there's no question of shenanigans, is there? BTW, forget the term "living will," it is confusing. It doesn't refer to a Will at all, it's a confusing old term for a health care instruction. Wills often say that the benefits are only for named beneficiaries; but once the property is transferred to the devisees, spouses will be involved, won't they? The will could create a trust with limitations on sister if her husband continues to be a problem, but that will increase the cost of the will and of the probate. If anyone is currently in the process of getting divorced, have that person tell the divorce lawyer there may be an inheritance.
Answered on Oct 15th, 2013 at 4:00 AM