abuse by military sgt. wife disabilied husband

This sounds like a very sad and urgent situation.  I'm not sure what the question is, but this person needs to find a qualified divorce attorney in the area in which he lives.  There is also the question of who is going to look out for his interests once the divorce is final.  There may need to be a long-term guardian appointed to take care of his affairs. This answer is given in accordance with the laws of Virginia and may not be applicable in any other state.  It should not be construed as legal advice, as that would require a more thorough analysis of all of the facts involved in a specific case.  If you need further information or assistance, please feel free to contact my office for a consultation. Case results depend upon a variety of factors unique to each case. Case results do not guarantee or predict a similar result in any future case.