If there is a court order that she has violated then you can seek to have her held in contempt of court. If your custody agreement has not yet been reduced to an order then you should seek to have a custody order entered. If there is no court order yet or if there was a previous court order entered in another state then you will likely have to proceed in the state that your daughter is living in. If there is a current Virginia order in place then you can proceed in Virginia.
Answered on Aug 18th, 2017 at 7:11 AM