you can initiate a step-parent adoption by your soon-to-be-spouse once you are married. The 7 year-old's father would have to consent but if he doesn't respond or seem to care, you could get the court to waive the requirement of his consent BUT the guy would have to be noticed/served with paperwork about what was going on.
Answered on Sep 03rd, 2015 at 5:28 AM