If she alleged that you choked her, it is likely that you were charged with Assault-Family Violence-Choking (or Impeding Breath). That is a 3rd degree felony. The range of punishment is from 2 years in prison up to 10 years in prison (also a $10,000 fine).
The short answer to one of your questions is that it is frighteningly easy to be arrested and charged with a felony offense. Many times all it takes is a phone call and an accusation. Obviously, that's all it took in your case.
You have a very defensible case, based on the facts that you have provided. What you need to do is hire a good defense attorney who will fight on your behalf to get this case No Billed, dismissed, or acquitted.
Answered on Feb 27th, 2014 at 3:15 PM