I am not sure whether you are talking about serving the original custody complaint, which often has a scheduling order attached to it, or some other court order. It is improper to have the Complaint served by someone who is a party to the action. In many cases, however, objecting to the manner of service doesn't accomplish anything. She could simply have him served by certified mail, or by having someone else hand the papers to him. He should discuss this with an attorney: often, he would be better off concentrating on the merits of the case rather than technical compliance with the Rules.
Answered on May 01st, 2013 at 3:47 PM