First things first. Check with your divorce lawyer. If you did not have one, consult one now. You'll need to see the precise language of the divorce decree and any agreements or other documents which were included with it. You might find that he has violated part of a court order, in which case he could be held in contempt of court. You might also decide to try to resolve matters outside of court: it can be far less embittering, and certainly far less expensive. It's no clear what the role of your 21-year old son is in this. Is he participating in the harassment, or is he a victim of it? If he is a victim, he is old enough so that you may not fight his battles for him. Consult a skilled family lawyer. Good Luck.
Answered on May 20th, 2015 at 10:00 AM