I would tend to agree with you concerning the fraud. ANYTHING coming from Nigeria and utilizing wiring funds should be suspect. Nigeria has warehouses filled with people committing fraud.
As a retired military officer, I can tell you that there is no need for funds for starting paperwork for leave. The person merely goes into the office and fills out paperwork. Plus, there is no need for a person in the U.S. military to get funds via Nigeria.
While there is not much that can really be done for Nigerian scams, the U.S. Secret Service should be notified as to the scam and possibly his facebook account can be immediately shut down by contacting Facebook.
Contact a local attorney for the divorce and how to tie up your assets to prevent draining the marital assets.
Answered on Sep 25th, 2011 at 2:21 PM