Breach of fiduciary duty/ fraud/ extristic fraud/ concealment

Iafter 12 years I found out thAT MY HUSBAND FILED A NO-FAULT BEHIND MY BACK SAYING I GOT NOTHING, ALL THE WHILE HE'S NICE TO ME, GIVES ME ONE RETIREMENT ACCT AND PAYS 400.00 A MONTH IN SPOUSAL UNTIL HE CALLS AND SAID HE GOT FIRED. IT STOPS. I TRY TO GET AHOLD OF HIMAND CAN'T. HE'S MOVED TO KONA (EVEN BEFORE HE SUBMITTED THE DEFAULT) AND I THINK HE HAD A PARALLEGAL FILE FOR HIM. ALL THE WHILE HE CALLS AND TELLS ME TO PICK UP FINAL JUDGEMENT AT "OUR" PARALLEGAL WHO WASN'T EVEN A PARALLEGAL) AND IN THE JUDGEMENT I DID GET THE 400.00 SPOUSAL, 400.00 FOR OUR SON BUT, THE SALE OF THE HOUSE I FOUND OUT HE TOOK 132,000 TO MY 32,000. THAN A YEAR LATER HE COMES AND TAKES MY SON! IN THAT CASE IT WAS OK. HE PUT HIM IN A PRIVATE SCHOOL. SO, 12 YRS LATER I FIND A 2005 CREDIT REPORT, AND I FIND 4 BANK ACCOUNTS THAT AREN'T MINE! THEY'RE HIS. MY DIVORCE PAPERS WERE REALLY SPECIFIC ON IF I FOUND A HIDDEN ACCT. SO I GO DOWN, AND LIKE I SAID, I HAVE ONE SET OF PAPERS, AND THEN THERE'S A TOTALL